THE HAZARDS INVOLVE IN SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
Bible quotation: 1Co 6:12 All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.
THE LESSONS: Even though the saints are not perfect and All Sins are equal, God hate fornication with “perfect hatred”. Sex is accepted by God only for godly married souls; for reproduction, blood covenant between two opposite sex, Unity, strength for the marriage and entertainment for couples. Sex in actual sense is not evil but sex before marriage is evil. It does not have any effect on God but rather we His chosen ones who disobey Him. It is the joy for every parent to see His or her daughter been obedient to his word. Likewise God want to see us obedient to His words.
God want us to abstain from sex completely before marriage. 1Co 6:15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot?
God forbid. Sex before marriage has so many implications:
Spiritual implication: 1. Disobeying God leading to God rough upon the marriage
2. It leads to weakness (ie you can no more pray as you use too), the Holy spirit is far from us since we are the temple of God.
3. Your spiritual gift may be tempered with
4. There is always doubt about your prayer to God, ie there is fear; if God will hear you when you pray.
5. No more effective prayer of righteous
6. You are enemy to God ie we are separated from God if we have sex before marriage.
7. Your marriage may be dedicated to Satan
8. We invite Satan into our life
Physical repercussion in sex before marriage:Sex before marriage affects the marriage physically in diverse ways:
1. Unwanted pregnancy or babe which may interfere of the marriage. Hmmm some cause abortion due to Sex before marriage
2. Infection of diseases like AIDS etc
3. One breaks the wall that control sex and find it difficult to control himself or her self.
4. Sex life in marriage is never something new and you may not be proud as Christian home. 5. If one part has failed the rules and used to sex, may intend to disturbed the other partner in so many ways.
6. You will never be satisfied when it happens that you married a Virgin. Eg. if a man or a woman is use to sex and have more experiences and got married to a virgin, both may not enjoy sex life in the marriage. (i) The virgin (man) may have “pre-ejaculation” ie he may be releasing his sperm quickly since he is not us to sex (Actually that is not pre-ejaculation because the more you have sex the more you can last in the acts). The lady who is use to sex may complain every day. Both may not enjoy the marriage in early stage. (ii) A virgin in early stage of the marriage, may not enjoy the marriage because the other partner have many experience about sex. May not want to have more sex a day or nightNote: If both obey God then they see every act as normal.
7. If one part or both had sex experience, one may be thinking about their previous boy friend or girl friend which will cause the marriage to be unstable. If one part is not satisfy
8. Much complain in the family because that is not how your former boy friend treated you.
9. Delay of pregnancy may occur since we disobey God
10. Lack of peace in the family since the devil is the corner stone of that particular marriage.
11. You may lack first love in your marriage, Virgins marriage in Christ is the most wonderful one. This is because they are not expose to marital life and what ever comes they easily forgive and accept each other.
Word of Advice: Abstain from sex before marriage because when you start, you can not control it. It is well.
Song 2:7 I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.
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